Parenting Schedules - Specifics of Sharing Time in Two Homes

The primary purpose of a co-parenting schedule is to delineate when the children will be with each parent, creating a predictable routine that supports their emotional and developmental well-being

The primary goals of a co-parenting schedule are to:

• Ensure Stability and Consistency: Provide children with a predictable routine to help them feel secure.
• Promote Healthy Relationships: Facilitate meaningful time with both parents, fostering strong emotional bonds.
• Support Developmental Needs: Align the schedule with the children’s educational, social, and extracurricular activities.
• Minimize Conflict: Establish clear guidelines to reduce misunderstandings and disputes between parents.

Key Considerations in Creating a Schedule

• Children's Ages and Developmental Stages
• Parent Work Schedules and Availability
• Children's Educational and Extracurricular Activities
• Proximity of Parents' Homes
• Special Needs and Considerations

Common Co-Parenting Schedules

Week-on/Week-off Schedule (with a Sunday transition)

2-2-3 Schedule

2-2-5-5 Schedule (or 2-2-5)

3-4-4-3 Schedule

Every Other Weekend Schedule (and variations)

Other Considerations

• Definition of a “Day”
• Transitions
• Summers

How do you decide on your co-parenting schedule?

• Most jurisdictions base scheduling decisions on the "best interests of the child" standard, which prioritizes the child's health, safety, and emotional well-being
• Children thrive on stability and consistency, especially during the upheaval of a divorce
• Should provide a predictable and consistent routine that helps children feel secure
• Building flexibility into the schedule allows for adjustments without causing significant disruptions
• A successful parenting schedule also requires effective communication and cooperation between parents
• Foster a spirit of collaboration

Implementing the parenting schedule consistently is crucial