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Co-Parenting in Two Homes

Parenting is challenging on its own. Co-parenting in two homes can be even more challenging. Learn about all elements of a parenting plan and how to best support your children and help them thrive after divorce.

Parenting

What is the role of a parenting consultant in resolving co-parenting disputes?

Process

How does arbitration differ from other ADR methods like mediation in resolving parenting disputes?

Process

What are the benefits of using a parent coordinator in a high-conflict co-parenting situation?

Table Of Contents
Parenting
Module
1

Co-Parenting - Introduction to Parenting in Two Homes

Introduction to creating a co-parenting agreement for the children in two homes.

Parenting
Module
2

Parenting Schedules - Specifics of Sharing Time in Two Homes

Learn of the specifics of creating a co-parenting schedule to ensure a balanced and structured approach to parenting post-divorce. This schedule is a cornerstone of your parenting plan, providing clarity, stability, and predictability for both parents and children.

Parenting
Module
3

Vacations - Adapting Schedules for Time Away

Explore key considerations and options for addressing travel and vacations in your parenting plan, providing guidelines and examples to help you create a comprehensive and practical arrangement.

Parenting
Module
4

Holidays - Scheduling for These Special Days

When developing your parenting plan, clear and mutually agreed-upon holiday arrangements to avoid conflicts and ensure a sense of stability for both parents and children.

Parenting
Module
5

Sick Days and Other No School Days

Learn about the key considerations for sick days or other no school days to ensure that children are well cared for and that both parents can manage their work and personal responsibilities effectively.

Parenting
Module
6

Transportation Between Homes

Learn about consistent and convenient ways to coordinate transportation between homes for parenting time.

Parenting
Module
7

Right of First Refusal - If you Need Care During Parenting Time

Learn the logistics and options for offering the opportunity for a parent to be with the children when the other on-duty parent is unavailable.

Parenting
Module
8

Relocation of a Parent

Learn the guidelines for addressing relocation of one parent within a co-parenting framework, ensuring that any decisions made prioritize the best interests of the children.

Parenting
Module
9

Modification - Changes to a Parenting Schedule

Review the key considerations for handling both temporary and permanent changes to the parenting schedule, ensuring that any modifications prioritize the best interests of the children.

Parenting
Module
10

Decision-Making in Parenting

Learn the legal aspects of decision-making in divorce around topics like medical/dental, education, religion, and practical guidance for effective co-parenting.

Parenting
Module
11

Custody Labels in a Parenting Plan

Learn the definitions of physical and legal custody, why these labels are implemented, and their implications for enforcement and day-to-day parenting.

Parenting
Module
12

Childcare and How its Handled in a Parenting Plan

Learn key considerations and strategies for managing childcare decisions collaboratively, emphasizing the importance of communication, agreement, and detailed planning.

Parenting
Module
13

Discipline for Children in Two Homes

Learn strategies for divorced parents to collaborate on setting expectations and managing discipline, ensuring that both households offer a supportive and coherent environment for the children.

Parenting
Module
14

Communication and Information Exchange

Learn best practices for sharing information, protecting children from parental conflicts and maintaining positive communication.

Parenting
Module
15

Extracurricular Activities in a Parenting Plan

Learn key considerations and strategies for making decisions about extracurricular activities, ensuring both parents remain actively involved and supportive.

Parenting
Module
16

Introduction of New Significant Others

Learn options and considerations when negotiating terms in a parenting plan on introduction of new significant others to children after divorce.

Parenting
Module
17

Extended Family - Support Ongoing Relationships

Learn considerations and guidelines for fostering positive interactions with children and extended family members after divorce while addressing any concerns that may arise.

Parenting
Module
18

Safety Concerns in Co-Parenting

Learn key considerations regarding safety concerns and potential agreements you may want to consider in order to ensure a secure and nurturing environment for the children in both homes.

Parenting
Module
19

Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) in Parenting

ADR options provide parents with effective methods to resolve disputes without resorting to litigation and are often required before going to Court.

Glossary Terms
Co-parenting Schedule

Also known as parenting schedule or parenting time Agreement, a detailed timetable that outlines the time each parent spends with their children post-divorce.

2-2-5 Schedule

Also known as 2-2-5-5 Schedule, co-parenting schedule in which children spend two days every week with one parent, two days every week with the other, and the three weekend days alternate each week.

Arbitration

An alternative dispute resolution method where a neutral third party, the arbitrator, listens to both sides and makes a binding decision to resolve the dispute; a process that is typically more formal than mediation but less so than a court trial.

2-2-3 Schedule

Co-parenting schedule in which children spend two days with one parent, two days with the other, and three days with the first parent and then the schedule reverses the following week.

Sole Decision-Making

Also known as individual decision-making, a parenting arrangement where one parent has the exclusive right and responsibility to make major decisions about their children's welfare, including decisions related to education, healthcare, and religion, typically due to the court's determination that this arrangement best serves the children's interests.

Parenting Plan
3-4-4-3 Schedule

Co-parenting schedule in which children spend three days with one parent, four days with the other, four days with the first parent, and then three days with the second, rotating over a two-week period and often transitioning over a weekend.

Parenting Time Agreement

Also known as co-parenting schedule or parenting schedule, a detailed timetable that outlines the time each parent spends with their children post-divorce.

Parenting Consultant

A neutral professional who assists parents in making decisions about child-related issues by offering guidance, making recommendations, and may make binding decisions if authorized by the parents or Court.

Hybrid Decision-Making

A parenting arrangement that combines elements of both joint and sole decision-making, allowing parents to share responsibilities in certain areas while granting one parent sole authority in others.

Visitation

In some jurisdictions, the scheduled parenting time that the non-custodial parent spends with the children, ensuring they maintain a meaningful relationship despite not having physical custody (or limited time).

No School Days

Non-summer, weekdays when there is no scheduled school, such as teacher workdays, holidays, and school breaks.

2-2-5-5 Schedule

Also known as 2-2-5 Schedule, co-parenting schedule in which children spend two days every week with one parent, two days every week with the other, and the three weekend days alternate each week.

Off Duty Parent

The parent not responsible for the children pursuant to a parenting plan or binding court order.

On Duty Parent

The parent responsible for the children pursuant to a parenting plan or binging court order.

Joint Physical Custody

A legal parenting arrangement in which the children spend time living with both parents, subject to a parenting schedule.

Sole Legal Custody

A legal parenting arrangement where one parent has the exclusive right to make major decisions about the child’s welfare, including education, healthcare, and religious upbringing, without the need to consult the other parent.

Legal Custody

A legal concept dictating the right and responsibility to make important decisions about a child’s life, including those related to education, healthcare, and religious practices.

Parent Coordination

An alternative dispute resolution method where a trained professional, often a mental health expert or attorney, helps manage ongoing parental conflicts and improve communication.

Best Interests

The guiding standard in family law that prioritizes the well-being and welfare of the child above all else and aims to ensure that decisions are made in a manner that promotes the child's overall health, happiness, and development, taking into account their unique circumstances and individual needs.