Module Notes
Types of Decision-Making Agreements
- Joint decision-making: both parents have a right to make decisions
- Sole decision-making or Individual decision-making: one parent has the right to make all decisions for the children
- Hybrid decision-making: combination of joint and sole decision-making on different categories of decisions
Strategies to help shared decision-making:
- Open Communication
- Mutual Respect and Flexibility
- Clear Decision-Making Processes
- Documenting Agreements
- Involving the Children (sometimes)
Categories of Decision-Making
While there are a lot of decisions that are important to children, three main categories are typically addressed explicitly in divorce.
Medical Decision-Making (including dental and vision)
These are the common areas of medical decisions require joint consideration due to their significant impact on the children's health and well-being:
- Selection of Doctor, Dentist, or Other Healthcare Provider
- Non-Emergency, Elective Surgery
- Significant Medical or Dental Care
- Mental Health and Psychological Care
Education Decision-Making
These are common educational decisions often requiring joint consideration due to their significant impact on the children’s academic journey:
- Selection of School(s)
- Participation in Special Education Programs
- Attendance at Summer School
- Participation in Major School Trips
Religion Decision-Making
Here are some of the most common categories of decisions needed regarding religion:
- Participation in Religious Education
- Participation in Divorce Care Programs
- Membership in Religious or Cultural Groups
- Participation in Religious Rites
- Attendance at Worship and Cultural Events
Establishing clear processes and documenting agreements can further support a harmonious co-parenting relationship, ultimately benefiting the children's well-being and stability.
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