What to do if you are not Satisfied with your Attorney

If you find yourself in a divorce matter and you're not satisfied with your attorney, it's essential to address your concerns promptly and consider your options moving forward.

To start, schedule a meeting with your attorney to discuss your dissatisfaction and communicate your specific concerns openly and constructively. Be clear and specific about what aspects of their representation are not meeting your expectations and how you would like to see improvements.  Your attorney may want to address your concerns and make adjustments to their approach if possible. Sometimes, misunderstandings or miscommunications can be resolved through open dialogue and clarification. Your attorney may be willing to make changes to better align with your needs and preferences.

If you're unsure about your attorney's advice or representation, it may be helpful to seek a second opinion from another qualified attorney. A fresh perspective can provide clarity and insight into your options and help you determine whether your concerns are valid or if adjustments can be made to improve the relationship.

Consider whether you have lost trust or confidence in your attorney's abilities and weigh the potential benefits of finding a new attorney who better aligns with your needs and objectives.  If you determine that continuing with your current attorney is not in your best interest, explore the possibility of changing attorneys. Research and interview potential replacements carefully to ensure you find someone who is a better fit for your case and with whom you feel more comfortable and confident. (See module on How to Find an Attorney and 10 Questions to Ask When Interviewing an Attorney).

If you decide to part ways with your current attorney, do so professionally and in an upfront manner. Follow the procedures outlined in your attorney-client agreement for terminating the relationship, and ensure that all outstanding fees and obligations are settled appropriately. If you have remaining funds in a retainer, those should be refunded to you. Know there may be some additional costs to transition attorneys in the middle of your process, but those costs should not dissuade you from doing what is best for your well-being through the process (and in the ultimate outcomes).

Remember that your attorney is there to serve your best interests and it's essential to have a relationship built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. If you find yourself unhappy with your attorney's representation in a divorce matter, don't hesitate to address your concerns and take proactive steps to find a representative that better serves your needs and objectives.